I have been emersing myself into these forums and all are excellent.
So S6 currently has a 2 week gap between summer camp and when school starts. I travel for work pretty extensive over this time and I had to rearrange S’s custodial arrangements during my time away. W has first right of refusal per temporary court order. She committed to taking him during the time I would have had with him.
It turns out now that W has reached out to my side of the street and has pawned son off every night this week (my mom, brother/sil) as she plans every night.
This frustrates me due to no sense of normalcy for my son along with a boundary she established when she first left that we don’t contact each other’s extended family. On one hand, I’m grateful that my mom and nephews get to see S, but also concerned she is starting to neglect our S.
Anyone have suggestions?
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
