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Gordie #20: patiently living my life

Hat tip to Ownit for stopping by and hitting the nail on the head and naming my thread

I do feel like I am in some uncharted territory for me

The good news is I know where I am

I know my strengths and weaknesses and values and even some of my blind spots

The bad news is I know where w is too and that is still firmly in the undecided camp

So yes how to follow my gut and instincts on the right thing to do

And not follow or be motivated by fear

DB coach says to keep doing what I am doing as it is making things better and not worse


Butterfly s last few posts really opened my eyes to things I had not previously seen so am filled with gratitude for her sharing that and those stories which obviously also resonated with sjohn and


Roist so good to hear from you and would love to know more of your thoughts and hear how you are doing when you have the time

And yes January seems so long ago when I had signed my lease to move out and even told my children that I was doing so and yes even after she dropped the D and OM I could have still moved out but I knew then and I know even more now that I made the right decision for me

I will post about recent events soon

Last edited by job; 08/02/18 09:50 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving