1) If she invites you to attend counseling with her, go. 2) DO NOT TAKE THE BAIT, no matter what. I don't care if she calls your mother filthy names, just walk away.
You're right, WWs do not have remorse. Earlier in my sitch I asked my W point blank if she was sorry she had an EA, or sorry she got caught. She fully admitted that she was sorry she got caught. This is a woman that won't utter a curse word, nor watch anything over a PG movie or show. Very pious and religious.
Scrambled eggs for brains!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018