I don't want to borrow against it. I don't want to pay it back and add a monthly payment. It was a rollover IRA. I would rather take the hit, and be free and clear.
About the back to back dates. Again, it is a kid/custody thing. he goes away tomorrow morning, and since we are available, we are taking advantage of it. I possibly won't see him again for a while. Trying to balance my 70/30 split with someone elses 50/50 split is the trickiest scheduling you can imagine. Sadly, I have had dates that never took off because of this. It's almost impossible sometime.
Yup Don, we ended up at his house. We didn't have the hanky panky. Tonight it's strictly dinner. And for a limited amount of time, because D10's grandma is coming to babysit. Yeah, you do rain on my parade. I can't do anything right!!!! I know I do things "against the rules" often. I guess it hasn't been serving me. But I didn't mess up too bad yet. I don't plan on it either.
J9- you are right. he is actually fading himself away. I am kind of disgusted by it, and I am grateful to have other things going on, because I would have given him a piece of my mind by now. It is admittedly easing the blow. Still silence from him.
