Just because she broke up with "this" OM doesn't mean that she wants her old life and family back. She's got a lot to process and that may include continuing to "explore her options".
One thing that was written to me a "lot" was that we as the LBS should not be a Plan B. It's easy to accept being a Plan B. My feelings at the time were that it was better to be a Plan B than a Plan Nothing.
Over time though I realized that unless SHE fundamentally changed and was willing to do the hard work to win back my trust and my heart that there was no future possible for us together.
My ex to the best of my knowledge hasn't changed and perhaps never will. It would only be if you see signs of fundamental change. True regret. Working on being a better person regardless of whether you are willing to take her back or not that I would suggest that you then consider opening your arms and trust again.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
