Am I coming or going?

[DonH]

I withdrew from an IRA I had from an old job. Took the penalty. Set aside money for taxes. It was advisable by my father and my accountant. They will help down the road with some expenses.

I'm not understanding this. You can borrow against an IRA for a down payment on a home. Why would an accountant advise you to cash it in and pay the penltues PLUS income tax? This makes no sense. Was this a traditional or ROTH?

As for the other comment about moving too fast, deep breath Don, it would not be your comments that raise that question, but back to back dates within 24-hours. Hmmmmmmmmm. I could say go slow or triple it or whatever but clearly what is going to happen is going to happen so I can just wish you luck and hope for the best. Cuddling on a first date? That doesn't happen in a public place does it? Please don't say this first date happened at your or his house? Or ended up there?

I am starting to feel like I'm always raining on your happy days and I most certainly do not want to do that - not at all. I really do hope this latest guy is what you are looking for. I just don't want to keep seeing history repeat itself. So let me end with Yeh!!!!!!! Congrats on a great first date!