And yes that's crappy what your wife is doing. It [censored] to get caught up in the spouse like that, but those feelings can be a good reminder to detach further and find happiness for ourselves.
I'm sure OM feels like he is a real gem.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
