JujuB,

None of us got to chose our parents, our heritage, our place of birth, our skin color, our looks or our IQ. And, certainly there are many wrongs foisted on us by society and the randomness of reality, but regardless of the circumstances, you have to make the best of what you're given. I'm not saying that wrongs shouldn't be made right; what I'm saying is that if you get caught in a downward spiral of blame and abject despair over your life as it is now, you're just going to end up as a seething ball of anger and depression. It's a slippery slope.