Blakmac, you're doing a great job of DB'ing! Sounds like you are listening to W and validating, and you are avoiding injecting your feelings/ thoughts into the convo, and you are not fighting the D, that's all exactly what you should do. I think all these signals you're getting from your W are a GREAT sign, she's starting to see what she will miss and she's not sure she's making the right decision after all. But like Steve and Sandi said, STAY THE COURSE! This isn't the time to pursue or assume she's changed her mind. You keep doing exactly what you've been doing and let HER pursue (which is exactly what she's doing). The one thing I want to caution you about is I think you are being too available to her. She's sort of learning to miss you but you are always immediately available when she calls and texts so you're allowing her a bit of cake-eating. Be more distant and mysterious. Not rude or cold, but you want to leave her with the impression that you are quite busy and can't carve out much time for her. You want her to wonder if she may lose you, and who you are with, and what you are doing.
