B....it took my ex about 6 months before she started to lower her guard and be more friendly with me. I am almost 1.5 years in and it is true that if she wants to recon it will happen when it is no longer on your radar. She will feel you pulling away and she will realize you are no faking it. She will know that you truely don’t care. I can see now how what everyone has been saying is so true. You also can not accept all the blame.
