Congrats JLS! This is very common. When you stop being he pursuer, you often become the pursuee. It takes time though and most LBSs get impatient with the wait-and-see approach and keep pressuring and pursuing because it feels more natural. Not pursuing requires effort and self-control.
Well done. It is important to remain consistent because he could just be temp checking. Don't take the positives as a sign that he is now open to pursuit.
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