I feel the same way. My wife has filed but the pace is at a slow crawl. W and I are still on speaking terms and are cordial to each other during our drop offs of our son.

I try to detach with love and seem to make good progress but then W says something that I construe as a tiny sliver of hope and I start back at square one.


Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis