My story. Advice needed

[equalzr]

I dont even know how we got to it, because i try to avoid conversations about us like the plague, but it ended up with her implying her A was justified because of things she has put up with over time. I know their thinking isnt rational for the most part, but to try to justify the fact that youve been having a PA is beyond me. How does anyone justify that? Then to look at me with evil in her eyes as if Im the bad guy in this is completely crazy. All the while everyone thinks she is the saint(her family plus counselor).