I don't truly know if the OM is actually out of the picture or what. She made me believe so on Sunday afternoon, but time will tell.
I'm struggling with: - do I ask her to do things? - can I say "I'm doing this, you're welcome to come." ?? - do I text/call her to say have a good day? - do I provide affection if she asks for it?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.