As MWD suggested I am noticing small positive changes. So I continued no pursuing today, confident, chatty and fun self and we went for a movie together... which I agree might look as pursuing but I really just thought I am going out with a friend not my H. There was a small wobble in our conversation during the day but I managed to get out of it nicely without causing further arguments. And H kissed me 3 times today ( yes, I am counting), hugged me once and held my hand a few times when crossing a road and came into our home office, when I was working, to have a chat! I am gobsmacked!!! Rose was right- I am giving him space to decide to lead the relationship... fingers crossed it continues.
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.