W also gave me the standard ILYBNILWY and that I was the cause of her unhappiness. Since BD, wife has also indicated that she is now not happy with her job and is considering making a change with that as well....so in 4 months, her mom dies, she moves out and rents new home, say's I'm 100% to blame for our marriage issues while not accepting any role, and now is seeking a new job.
I have communicated to her that the only one that is responsible for her happiness is herself, which is something that I've learned during this transition period. I've tried to approach this entire situation as an opportunity to do some personal development and work on myself. Just pray that I have the forbearance and hope that W will come to terms and work through her issues at her own pace and can warm back up to MR. Just think ego and pride and huge factors now in that she doesn't want to come back after making some serious proclamations about me. She has also gaslighted our entire marriage to make things sound that it was horrible all the time.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
