As you, your husband and SIL all surely know, it's a bit odd that adult siblings would live together.

I would remember that when you try to detach and the positive thing there is that you aren't living with your SIL!!!

No need for you to be immature, people will see things like this for what they are.

Your H is not exactly stable so you have to accept that you aren't going to "fix" it or him maybe at all. If it does happen, it will take time.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.