Thanks, ovrrnbw. I'm a work in progress on detachment, but there is progress. At the very least, I am successfully faking it (till I'm making it) at home. I'm all business with the W and I think I'm doing it successfully, after a few fits and starts. That doesn't mean I'm there yet, but compared to where I was at the beginning of this month, I'm pretty proud of myself.
Me: 40 W:39 T: 19 M: 12 D4, D7 EA/BD: August 2017 EA ended: Oct 2017 MC: Oct 2017 - March 2018 W signed lease: July 10, 2018 W moved out: Sept. 14, 2018