Also, this is my take - men generally think vulnerability is a weakness. I believe it is a huge strength. The fact that you are vulnerable about your D and drop offs is not something to be ashamed of. You are a loving parent and it shows. I have all the strength and masculinity in the world, but I also don't shy from my vulnerability. This actually makes me even more strong and powerful because I am authentic, and authenticity is the most amazing thing. Be strong by knowing you values, your boundaries, and who you are. Vulnerability is the icing on that cake.