I hate trying to come up with something useful after Steve posts, he is on it.
I will offer my support and encourage you to detach further. It is clear to me, and to your W I'm sure too, that you are hung up on everything she says and does.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.