Sandi,

i dont mean to hijack Lane's thread, but is that disrespect and rebellion born completely out of the resentment that has built up over the years by the WW? I have a WW in the midst of a MLC. Im starting to believe she gets a rush out of disrespecting me, sneaking around with OM, and leaving trinkets that I believe are from OM but dont have proof, right out in the open in front of me. Im doing a lot of reading but still get confused about the entire pic. So i guess the rules for me are tough love, dont hang out(decline any invite?), set boundaries, and GAL? My wife has been cake eating for a long time unfortunately.

Id appreciate any advice you have about my sitch,mythread


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof