The other aspect of your post was "Will she be mad at me if I cut off or limited the financing?"

Your real outlook on this should be "I am going to do what I think is right (NOT finance the separation) and if she gets mad about it so be it".

Do what is right. Do not violate your own principles and morals. Let her feelings fall where they may.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018