Sandi's Reflections - Part 2

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Sandi,

Thank you for that. I don't really think my WW will come back and want to R, but this post really helped me confirm that I am right to not want to let her just come back home if she does come knocking one day. I know her A will fall apart, but I've reached a point that I want to move on and hopefully find someone that actually wants to be with me. I'm definitely still mourning the loss of my marriage/family, but I don't miss her anymore. As much as I would love for my son to have both parents together every day, I definitely couldn't take her back the way she is OR the way she was before BD. Your perspective on WWs has been so helpful, and has made it a lot easier for me to see her and our situation for what it is.