Arsh, it's hard to know what your husband said about you to his whole family. Probably some true and some untrue things, but I'm sure it was spun in a way to convince them he's the victim and has to leave which of course is so unfair. The betrayal of the whole family must be devastating, especially as your children are caught in between. I still hope this is temporary. Your message reminds me of the last major issue I'm dealing with and would like your input - I'll post it on my thread later so I don't hijack yours.
Arsh are you still seeing your counselor? If so, I'm curious to know what he or she says and suggests at this time.