Thanks Helena, it’s very immature of him. He knows it will bother me so he is doing this to just inflict pain, not actions of a responsible adult. The whole drama has been childish in so many ways and I am struggling to be patient.
Nicole, all my in laws who originally were with me turned against me soon enough and their betrayal is no less than WH. SIL has decided to side with her brother, maybe she thinks zero cost of living requires that in return? Who knows what they think. It’s like the whole family has got wayward syndrome I stopped speaking to them once I realized they are causing me more suffering by being enablers I also think i channel my anger towards them instead of WH to somehow not build resentment against him. It’s all twisted They should move out in the next few days, I think moving out with a bag like your WH is more common. What my H is doing is full of uncertainty and deliberation leading to more confusion