You have ZERO control over how, when, and what loss she will feel. That timeline is completely out of your hands. Let it go.
Not looking to control in Makia, just trying to understand it. I have said this before on other posts, i know her personality type is going to lead to her trying to manipulate me again down the road. I need to be as prepared for that and have a full understanding of it so when (not if) she comes back in trying to manipulate me, i have the proper knowledge and emotional defenses to NOT get roped back into an abusive relationship. I recognize that right now, i am susceptible to that. I have not fully detached, and gotten over her.
please understand my desire for understanding comes from a place of defense and self preservation.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
