Thanks, Steve. I'm in IC. I'll get the book. No problem. Where do you see me acting passive aggressively? I admit that my writing style may give you that idea ("wreck our family"), but that was a lame attempt at humor in this humorless sitch.

As far as the covert contracts, there's nothing covert about this. Our original arrangement (me spending, her saving) was discussed extensively and mutually agreed upon. And what I am thinking about doing now is having a discussion about changing our current arrangement in light of the current circumstances. Granted, I haven't read the book yet, but where am I being a nice guy?


Me: 40 W:39
T: 19 M: 12
D4, D7
EA/BD: August 2017
EA ended: Oct 2017
MC: Oct 2017 - March 2018
W signed lease: July 10, 2018
W moved out: Sept. 14, 2018