Thanks Nicole, cdn and ovrrnbw for your support This week and next SIL is at home. I have mentioned how SIL has lived with us in the past and it did not go well, she moved back in again over a year ago and despite my protests H made her live with us and this was a huge stressor for my sitch, I nagged and he distanced himself. Now they are moving out together , leaving his wife and kids and setting up a place to support sis. She travels for most weeks so it has not been that bad but the next 2 weeks she is at home mostly to help pack and move out They keep discussing how to set up and what to buy for their new place right in front of me all the time. So I have decided to just stay out of the house for most of this week. I was getting ready to leave when H said he is busy with something. I just responded that I was going out too and the both of them can feed the kids and get them to bed. He must have been irritated just said OK. The older me would never leave the kids with them and GAL, but hey I have kids all the time so it’s me time for a change especially when he has his dear sis to help. I worked out at the gym until I felt dizzy, will stay for bit longer and go home. I will be sure to thank them for watching the kids, he may read sarcasm in it but I will be genuine There is hardly any convo between H and I, I follow the rules and don’t initiate neither does he. I am not able to evaluate if I need to change this in any way My attitude might even feel aloof with no convos I feel like he is not even remotely attracted to me anymore, nothing I can do about it to change him anyway I make sure to dress well and look pretty, I know I don’t lack pretty, god only knows when he stopped seeing it
On the plus side watched a tedtalk from Guy Winch on how to mend a broken heart, I highly recommend it for those of you who have not seen it yet
The next few weeks will be really hard so I am trying to stay strong as much as I can
