WW-is there hope? Any advise from former WW's

[equalzr]

Sorry you have to deal with this Lane. The lying just gets unreal. I mean they lie about almost everything, and 95% of the lies arent even good ones. I wonder if they can think clearly enough to realize that their lies are that transparent or not? My W would be gone for 7 hours to run errands, or go for a ride for 3 hours etc, but those are just the small simple examples. There has been so much time that has gone by that its hard to keep track, i eventually gave up on it.

I can understand the wanting to give up part. Ive been feeling like that lately. Its tough, after all shes done, and she doesnt seem to want me or our M either. It definitely isnt the same person any more in my case. Ive found out details of the A when I use to snoop, and like they say sometimes your better off not knowing.

I cant believe how easily they justify blowing their kids off. My W is still at home so she sees S regularly, but dissapears until 3/4 a.m., or dissapears for 7 hour stretches for no reason. She has yelled at my S in the past for asking where she was going or when she was coming home that night.