WW-is there hope? Any advise from former WW's

[LANE777]

So I just got my books today Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy. I skimmed through them briefly. It seems that all the advise I'm getting here for a WW is a little different from the books. Does it talk much at all about a WW in a current affair. It seems I may be on the last resort technique. Which one would you suggest I read first?

Last night the W told me she was tired and wanted to stay home and rest instead of seeing the kids for a while. LIE.
She said she would call my D later...about 9:30 I texted her to see if she was going to call. She said she was tired and would call. She wasn't home because of course we have to drive by her parents to get home. So disheartening to hear say and do these things and not follow through. She also said she would try to see them today. We haven't heard from her all day. I just hate that she says she wants to see kids and then doesn't make any effort. Very selfish to say the least.

I'm slowly feeling myself wanting to just give up on her all together. She already gave up on me. It makes me so mad that she is doing this to our family, but I can't say a thing. I am still in detach mode. I am trying to be patient.
What do I do from here on out? I think she is so distracted that she doesn't notice anything I do at all.

I guess it is Monday and the beginning of a new week is alway hard isn't it?