Limerence and My Situation 6

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Thanks Btrow,

I hold my hands up, our M wasn't perfect who's is...

I'm a firm believer in fighting for my M but also what I believe is right, what this letter basically outlined was the fact that I am to blame for her having sex with another man.

How crazy these people get in the throws of the chemical hit they're getting at this time, 20 months and counting... Now I will rightly or wrongly dodge the D process as much as I can and remain civil and amicable throughout, I intend to let the solicitors do the fighting for me and just carry on GAL and working on me and the boys.

I believe this is just another stage in the process, forever the optimist but I will not be the one who breaks this family she has that AND all the work to do.

I intend to stay constant in showing her my commitment whilst being the better have fun and enjoy this period in my life.

I know down the line there's going to be some hard times but one day at a time and rest assured no more mr nice guy if she wants this D then it's under my terms which is best for me and our two boys.

Take care.

Mark.

Lol my WW still blames me for her jumping in bed with someone else. Or sometimes she blames my mom (she thinks my mom had an affair).

My WW even blames me for her lies. She says well you lied you did this instead of just saying yes, I lied, sorry.

So you're not alone, they wouldn't be able to explain this to anyone, but they throw it at you. Don't accept responsibility, but don't linger in argument or worry about it excessively. Worry about something you can control.....YOU!!!

Good luck.