A visit here from someone who knows what you are going through. I love that you constantly remind us about the control. With mine, I see control around money, control around communication and control over the "process." I had thought that by allowing the MLCer to "own" the process, that "it" might pass with less pain, less strife, and less difficulty. Indeed, that has not been the case for me. Once again there is, I believe, too much fear of letting go. I love to see you to handle your situation with grace and aplomb.
