If she were getting clingy or weird by now, if she were all "You have to work, I really want to see you, I really miss you." at least at this point I'd be cautious. Instead, she just goes about her life. If I text, she responds pretty quickly or calls or whatever but she just lives her life and acts like she is very confident with or without me. It's a very attractive quality and is keeping my interest.
Good advice for all of us dating!
CMM is totally besotted with me and it's a fine line. I'm enjoying the relationship and getting to know him - but feel like he's run on ahead a few blocks. I do understand that it's largely because we just started at different places: he was more than ready to get into a monogamous relationship and find his "last love", I was a little bit traumatized and just dipping my toe back into the dating pool when we met. Also, he's an extrovert who would love to spend tons of time with me while my introvert self needs some space. The good thing though is he's very receptive to talking about it and willing to give me space when I ask for it. And to be fair, he is very good company and he speaks my love languages.
It's just that, as someone who myself is often the pursuer, it's interesting to be on this end of things and see how too much enthusiasm too soon could easily put off someone who otherwise would be interested. (Not that CMM is putting me off, but if I were more of an Avoidant type it would definitely be a problem.)
