Been thinking about you, especially since our sitches were similar - including the time around when we got away from our MLC spouses.
Glad to see you posting less here, and out living life instead.
The will and passport things sound like control issues indeed. I love job's idea of just replacing both without his knowledge and invalidating them altogether. He just gets informed after the fact, with a brief text!
Reminder - MLCers take the path of least resistance, even during a fight they want to have.
Enjoy the summer!
M: 49, W: 45 T: 22 M: 15 S14, S11, S9 BD: Jan '16 W files: Oct '16 D final: June '18
