I have a pretty good idea what my husband's #1 fantasy is but since I'm not about to do it with another woman in front of him, this information serves no purpose. I have had some limited success in initiating by thinking up fantasies I think he would appreciate and sharing them with him. The one involving his motorcycle was most successful. (LOL) I also got some useful info by asking him to show me what pictures in his porn mags he finds most erotic. Unfortunately,it will probably take me about 2 years of yoga training to gain that level of flexibility
One hopeful sign: He said one of the reasons he would like me to lose some weight is so he could flip me around more easily!
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver