I am sure that my W is taking money to hide in advance of issuing a D. Therefore I might have to D her by a deadline to help protect myself.
MrsJLS, I wish my W was more like you in trying to save M. About a week before W left I'd mentioned having another baby. I guess your deadline is your body clock minus the time to meet someone new (who would be a great father and H) and the time to get pregnant.