Wonderful weekend was had. I took today off of work and kept D10 out of camp because we didn't get home until 11, and I was on the road for over 3 hours. Our census is low and this is when they encourage you to take your time, so I did. We looked at a house today (ironically, around the corner from exH's childhood home) and we put a bid on it. It was kind of perfect for us. It is small, but functional...… but has the potential for a finished basement which will double the size of the house. The guy who lives there takes impeccable care of it. It is below my budget. It is flood insurance required, which is fine, I am getting an exact quote right now, but it's less than an HOA fee. It has to much potential but works great as it is. I will refinish the hardwood floors before I go in and possibly do a bathroom reno. right off the bat.
As far as my sad dating life. Haven't heard from HC since the pic Friday night. I am realizing, this doesn't work for me. I have been chatting a lot with bandguy. He even checked to make sure I got home safe yesterday. HC has no idea what my plans were this weekend, never reached out about my weekend. Didn't bother to try to make plans. Screw this, quite honestly. This bandguy may not work out, we have never met, but atleast I know there are somewhat attentive men out there. This guy you can tell really does want a partner. It is a little obvious he is mourning the death of the life he thought he would have. He's a family man.
I just know HC is just kind of getting his when I give him the opportunity. He's just not there. I've stood pretty solid on not reaching out and I am not going to. he needs to and make a date. But in the meantime I am planning my free childless time. ANd I hope I can make it work or a date with band guy.
