ballast, this is normal for a LBS, especially a LBH to think. You could have been a perfect H and this still could have happened. You have no way of knowing that for sure. Own your part in the failure of the MR. DO NOT OWN HER PART. Short of physical abuse, and few other extremely rare behaviors, there is never an excuse for stepping outside of the bonds of the MR. So no YOU are not to blame for her actions.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
