I thought it might have been a tiny, tiny bit of progress.
Hi David,
You say you are not reading into your interactions with her - however the above comment and recent posts still indicates that you still are.
Obviously you want to try and understand what is going on. But no matter what your psychologist says, no matter how much you think, no matter how much you try and work things out in your mind... It is wasted energy as the end product will still be the same unfortunately.
There will be no progress at this time. So please understand that you will find NO solace or answers reading her behavior - as it is the behavior of someone who does not have your best interests at heart anymore. She is feathering her own nest and to be honest it sounds like she is treating you badly. But this is only happening because you continue to allow it to happen.
All your strength should be on rebuilding your life and your outlook on the road ahead.
I know you don't want a divorce... but it is probably going to happen sadly - I think that is something you need to fully accept.
If you fully did, It wouldn't matter what say says or does or constantly thinking about why, it would be water of a ducks back.
