Detaching / Dbing... Can I get to Piecing?

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Thanks sandi. I will try. I want to do what works what I expect to work does not. The funny thing is there are other woman interested in me. I have gone out on a date or two recently just socially. I will start behaving like I dumped her and moved on.

One question I do have. If I am not available to her how do I act if / when she starts pursuing... still not make plans or go out with her, unless she wants to commit to working on the marriage?
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