I guess the advantage of being a HD women is at least I know my LDH is into the sex while it's actually going on. He'll even compliment me on my technique afterward. But this actually adds to my confusion about why he doesn't want to do it on a regular basis. I've asked him for feedback many times but only get very specific suggestions such as "grab my head when I go down on you" or "keep your eyes open more" and implementing these suggestions seems to make no difference in long run frequency.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
