I feel the same FaceMan. My wife has now been out a month and a half. The longer she is gone, the less I feel like there is hope for us. Not after 18 months of treating me like crap first (BD, EA, cold/distant, etc).
But, I still think that time may help. Not sure about that, but so far, with time I keep evolving how I feel. I have never really experienced an anger stage, and I'm not certain I will. I am kind of thinking that this detached feeling I have is how anger plays out in me. If that is the case...then it may pass as a stage of grief. Who knows for sure. Time just keeps ticking and I'm still waking up each day with a new perspective.
