Yes...I'm afraid the nooks and crannies in my closet are filled with the toys, lotions, and books that were summarily rejected. I'm not even suggesting anything extreme! Like a lot of men, I'm pretty visual, but my W prefers not to be seen "down there." I wrote in another post how much I feel like "Bob" in the Vagina Monologue called "Because He Liked To Look At It"! Speaking of rote, the last time we attempted to ML, this was last week, she seem so not to be enjoying it, seeemed tense in fact, that I just stopped. Couldn't continue. She was annoyed and said something to the effect of "I really try to accommodate you." Accommodate! She doesn't seem to understand, and I have tried to communicate it before, that I get enormous pleasure from HERE pleasure. If the lovemaking session is going to be one sided, I would actually prefer to go solo.
