HaWho - it sounds like you are navigating the troubled waters reasonably well.

When I had my will done up it came as a package where my lawyer also did the powers of attorney for health and financial issues. I set it as my two brothers jointly and in consultation with the kids. In some ways this is perhaps a more important document IMO.

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