Detaching / Dbing... Can I get to Piecing?

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Agree on all points. I respond too quickly to texts. For example I texted her I’ll be home around 2. She had sent me a few texts this morning and asked how I played while I was playing in the tournament and a parenting article. I’d usually give her some details about how it went. But if she wants to know I guess she would be here with our family like all the families my age on the team are. Say something like it was fun, see you soon?

Less available.... too often I’m black and white. Barely talk to her or ignore her vs be too available. Have to find that fine like of being nice but not too available.

Working on it. I almost accept it is a lost cause.