Right... that's the key. Except be a nice business man. Lol. I know it's difficult bc them seeming as if they want to reconnect is what you want. I think in your situation you need to back off some. You have made a lot of progress. About a month ago you were a mess, am I right? You don't seem to be as much now. In my opinion, you seem very available to her. I really think that if you were to limit your time,she will start to wonder.

How fast do you respond to text? Do you always go over when she wants?