I think your wife is like my wife, she actually uses her children to KEEP herself from sex. She has them in all kinds of sports, which keeps us extremely busy, so little time alone, and whn alone, she is to tired from all the activity. She alos stays up late on Fridays and Saturdays watching movies with the oldest son, like until 2AM or even later. It's almost like she is dating my son for crying out loud! We go to dinner, almost always with the children. We do EVERYTHING as a family, but not as a couple. SHe is OBSESSED with her children, she has carried the Mommy mode to the extreme. Come this summer, she will stay up every night until 1-2 AM with the kids, since they are all on summer vacation and do not have to get up at 6 AM like I do. I probably will be lucky to ML to the wife 8 times this entire year. Literally, LD spouses HIDE behind their children.
