I knew that my wife had lost respect for me over the years. Reading that list put it front and center. The story fits the script, I paid for everything while she worked on hers masters, and she eventually took over when she landed a great job, and then I became the SAHD. Eventually resentment set in, and I think she saw me as less than a man for it. She definitely lost respect and attraction for me as a result. Now I have a WW who is middle of a MLC. She conveniently forgets everything I have done.
Im worried my W may have some other issues. Shes probably apologized to me 2 times in 20 years, and those were half hearted. I dont see how she could ever come out of a MLC with an A, and show full repentence, admit everything, and seek forgiveness(even over a long peruod of time).
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof