That question was loaded. You seem stuck on her wanting to hang out and get a drink. It's been a topic for quite sometime. You even mentioned it to her and didn't she talk about anxiety or something?
I know that I have personally suggested limiting your time when you drop/pick up D3. And everytime you post, it continues. If you want this woman to be with you more than you are with her now, she needs to feel like she is losing you. I know LBS's have a hard time understanding this. But it's pretty classic. Spouse leaves bc of whatever reason. They are basically in control of the situation at that point. Lbs freaks out. But when lbs starts to stand up and say "ok", and gets on with life, they other one notices.
You are a smart guy. Think of what you would tell your best friend. I'm not trying to be harsh, really I'm not. I actually think you have a great shot at saving your marriage. I just think your wife knows that you are putty in her hands.
