What makes my story a bit worse is that my W doesnt have anyone in her life other than me to tell her what she is doing is wrong, and I stopped a while back after I became educated on MLC etc. I dont have a great relationship w/ her family because they were estranged for the majority of our relationship. That said, her two siblings have been hanging out with her and OM for at least a year. You would think that one of them would have the decency to say something to her, perhaps hey your married and have a family at home so this isnt right??? Her parents seem to believe whatever she tells them so nothing there. This is what i have to deal with, she gets to cheat on her family, and still looks like she is great.

Ive been working on my own business this weekend and had a meeting with a mentor about it, so that was good for GAL. Even though Im trying to keep busy, my emotions are on a roller coaster ride, and it seems like its mostly on the way down. This coming week ill get back in the gym and start working out again. Ill also start getting back into motivational/self help books as well.

I dont initiate contact with my W anymore. Basicall all calls/texts start with her, even though those are rare. She might text 1-2 times a day and possibly give me a rare call if there is something to discuss that doesnt involve R(son etc). When W is at home she spends 99% of time in the bedroom hovering over her phone and messaging, she doesnt interact with us much really. Other than our S and bills, we literally have no relationship anymore. Shes full speed ahead with OM.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof